Emotional Affair?

i am going through this same thing exactly. my hubby went out for the first time last night with his friends. he told me he was going to be home at 8pm and he wasn't. he never even called to tell me that he was going to be late. i called him and he didn't answer his phone. you can imagine how i felt. i know he was with his friends because i'm friends with a wife of one of the guys that was also there. anyway, it's hard to trust them again. to let them out of your site again. but remember, if he wanted to cheat on you again, he would and there would be nothing that you could do to stop him. if he really wanted to, he would find a way. however, it's up to him now to repair the broken trust. it's not just going to fix itself. i ordered the book below for my hubby and so far it's helping. maybe it would help you too.